Wrath is a deadly sin. Patience is a heavenly virtue. This is not true. In moderate amounts, both are virtues. In extreme amounts, both are sins. Everything in extreme amounts becomes unhealthy. Too much love. Too much kindness. Too much sun. Too much water. Extreme also addresses the lack of. No love. No kindness. No sun. No water. Dichotic labels create the illusion that life exists in binary axioms. For biology this may be true but for everything else it should be conceptualised more like a dial. Right now you need more love. Or need to be more loving.